perf(core) Reduce copying and cloning in extension initialization (#18252)

Follow-up to #18210:

* we are passing the generated `cfg` object into the state function
rather than passing individual config fields
 * reduce cloning dramatically by making the state_fn `FnOnce`
 * `take` for `ExtensionBuilder` to avoid more unnecessary copies
 * renamed `config` to `options`

cli/lsp/tsc.rs

@@ -2834,13 +2834,13 @@ deno_core::extension!(deno_tsc,
     op_script_names,
     op_script_version,
   ],
-  config = {
+  options = {
     performance: Arc<Performance>
   },
-  state = |state, performance| {
+  state = |state, options| {
     state.put(State::new(
       Arc::new(StateSnapshot::default()),
-      performance,
+      options.performance,
     ));
   },
 );