fix(ext/node): support JS underlying stream in TLS (#30465)

Fixes https://github.com/denoland/deno/issues/20594

This implements `JSStreamSocket` which drives the TLS underlying stream
in `rustls_tokio_stream` using 2 sets of channels. One for piping the
encrypted protocol transport and the other for plaintext application
data.

This fixes connecting to `npm:mssql`:
```js
import sql from "npm:mssql";

const sqlConfig = {
  server: "localhost",
  user: "divy",
  password: "123",
  database: "master",
  options: {
    trustServerCertificate: true,
  },
};

const pool = await sql.connect(sqlConfig);
const result = await pool.request().query(`SELECT * FROM sys.databases`);
```

ext/node/lib.rs

@@ -460,6 +460,8 @@ deno_core::extension!(deno_node,
     ops::tls::op_get_root_certificates,
     ops::tls::op_tls_peer_certificate,
     ops::tls::op_tls_canonicalize_ipv4_address,
+    ops::tls::op_node_tls_start,
+    ops::tls::op_node_tls_handshake,
     ops::inspector::op_inspector_open<P>,
     ops::inspector::op_inspector_close,
     ops::inspector::op_inspector_url,