feat: subcommand to view and update outdated dependencies (#26942)

Closes #20487

Currently spelled

```
deno outdated
```
and
```
deno outdated --update
```

Works across package.json and deno.json, and in workspaces.

There's a bit of duplicated code, I'll refactor to reduce this in follow
ups

## Currently supported:
### Printing outdated deps (current output below which basically mimics
pnpm, but requesting feedback / suggestions)

```
deno outdated
```
![Screenshot 2024-11-19 at 2 01
56 PM](https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/51fea83a-181a-4082-b388-163313ce15e7)

### Updating deps

semver compatible:
```
deno outdated --update
```
latest:
```
deno outdated --latest
```
current output is basic, again would love suggestions
![Screenshot 2024-11-19 at 2 13
46 PM](https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/e4c4db87-cd67-4b74-9ea7-4bd80106d5e9)

#### Filters
```
deno outdated --update "@std/*"
deno outdated --update --latest "@std/* "!@std/fmt"
```
#### Update to specific versions
```
deno outdated --update @std/fmt@1.0.2 @std/cli@^1.0.3
```

### Include all workspace members
```
deno outdated --recursive
deno outdated --update --recursive
```

## Future work
- interactive update
- update deps in js/ts files
- better support for transitive deps

Known issues (to be fixed in follow ups):
- If no top level dependencies have changed, we won't update transitive
deps (even if they could be updated)
- Can't filter transitive deps, or update them to specific versions

## TODO (in this PR):
- ~~spec tests for filters~~
- ~~spec test for mixed workspace (have tested manually)~~
- tweak output
- suggestion when you try `deno update`

---------

Co-authored-by: Bartek Iwańczuk <biwanczuk@gmail.com>

cli/args/mod.rs

@@ -1628,6 +1628,7 @@ impl CliOptions {
       DenoSubcommand::Install(_)
         | DenoSubcommand::Add(_)
         | DenoSubcommand::Remove(_)
+        | DenoSubcommand::Outdated(_)
     ) {
       // For `deno install/add/remove` we want to force the managed resolver so it can set up `node_modules/` directory.
       return false;