fix(node): support passing parent stdio streams (#19171)

This is a bit bare bones but gets `npm-run-all` working. For full stdio
compatibility with node more work is needed which is probably better
done in follow up PRs.

Fixes #19159

cli/tests/unit_node/testdata/child_process_stdio.js

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+import childProcess from "node:child_process";
+import process from "node:process";
+import * as path from "node:path";
+
+const script = path.join(
+  path.dirname(path.fromFileUrl(import.meta.url)),
+  "node_modules",
+  "foo",
+  "index.js",
+);
+
+const child = childProcess.spawn(process.execPath, [script], {
+  stdio: [process.stdin, process.stdout, process.stderr],
+});
+child.on("close", () => console.log("close"));