This is to help make this feature less ambiguous with `npm patch`, which
it's not like.
Note: the "patch" property will continue to work for the time being, but
the lockfile will have a bit of churn for this unstable property. We're
going to merge this in a patch because this feature is unstable.
todo:
- [ ] cleanup cli, decide what flags we want to commit to
- [x] decide what to do about node addons - (you can mark them external
via `--external`)
- [x] move `esbuild_rs` to the `denoland` org
- [x] figure out the dynamic require issue
- [x] figure out how to test this
- [x] clean up / revert all the random changes
