gh-117439: Make refleak checking thread-safe without the GIL (#117469)

This keeps track of the per-thread total reference count operations in
PyThreadState in the free-threaded builds. The count is merged into the
interpreter's total when the thread exits.

Objects/bytesobject.c

@@ -3118,7 +3118,7 @@ _PyBytes_Resize(PyObject **pv, Py_ssize_t newsize)
         PyObject_Realloc(v, PyBytesObject_SIZE + newsize);
     if (*pv == NULL) {
 #ifdef Py_REF_DEBUG
-        _Py_DecRefTotal(_PyInterpreterState_GET());
+        _Py_DecRefTotal(_PyThreadState_GET());
 #endif
         PyObject_Free(v);
         PyErr_NoMemory();