gh-127545: Add _Py_ALIGNED_DEF(N, T) and use it for PyObject (GH-135209)

* Replace _Py_ALIGN_AS(V) by _Py_ALIGNED_DEF(N, T)

This is now a common façade for the various `_Alignas` alternatives,
which behave in interesting ways -- see the source comment.

The new macro (and MSVC's `__declspec(align)`) should not be used
on a variable/member declaration that includes a struct declaraton.
A workaround is to separate the struct definition.
Do that for `PyASCIIObject.state`.

* Specify minimum PyGC_Head and PyObject alignment

As documented in InternalDocs/garbage_collector.md, the garbage collector
stores flags in the least significant two bits of the _gc_prev pointer
in struct PyGC_Head. Consequently, this pointer is only capable of storing
a location that's aligned to a 4-byte boundary.

Encode this requirement using _Py_ALIGNED_DEF.

This patch fixes a segfault in m68k, which was previously investigated
by Adrian Glaubitz here:
https://lists.debian.org/debian-68k/2024/11/msg00020.html
https://bugs.debian.org/cgi-bin/bugreport.cgi?bug=1087600
Original patch (using the GCC-only Py_ALIGNED) by Finn Thain.

Co-authored-by: Finn Thain <fthain@linux-m68k.org>
Co-authored-by: Victor Stinner <vstinner@python.org>
Co-authored-by: John Paul Adrian Glaubitz <glaubitz@physik.fu-berlin.de>

Include/Python.h

@@ -59,14 +59,6 @@
 #  include <intrin.h>             // __readgsqword()
 #endif
 
-// Suppress known warnings in Python header files.
-#if defined(_MSC_VER)
-// Warning that alignas behaviour has changed. Doesn't affect us, because we
-// never relied on the old behaviour.
-#pragma warning(push)
-#pragma warning(disable: 5274)
-#endif
-
 // Include Python header files
 #include "pyport.h"
 #include "pymacro.h"
@@ -146,9 +138,4 @@
 #include "cpython/pyfpe.h"
 #include "cpython/tracemalloc.h"
 
-// Restore warning filter
-#ifdef _MSC_VER
-#pragma warning(pop)
-#endif
-
 #endif /* !Py_PYTHON_H */