[3.14] gh-140041: Fix import of ctypes on Android and Cygwin when ABI flags are present (GH-140178) (#140180)

Use sysconfig to determine the full name of libpython, rather than hardcoding
a library name that doesn't have ABI flags.
(cherry picked from commit 7f371ed84b)

Co-authored-by: Malcolm Smith <smith@chaquo.com>

Android/testbed/app/build.gradle.kts

@@ -47,7 +47,7 @@ for ((i, prefix) in prefixes.withIndex()) {
     val libDir = file("$prefix/lib")
     val version = run {
         for (filename in libDir.list()!!) {
-            """python(\d+\.\d+)""".toRegex().matchEntire(filename)?.let {
+            """python(\d+\.\d+[a-z]*)""".toRegex().matchEntire(filename)?.let {
                 return@run it.groupValues[1]
             }
         }
@@ -64,9 +64,10 @@ for ((i, prefix) in prefixes.withIndex()) {
     val libPythonDir = file("$libDir/python$pythonVersion")
     val triplet = run {
         for (filename in libPythonDir.list()!!) {
-            """_sysconfigdata__android_(.+).py""".toRegex().matchEntire(filename)?.let {
-                return@run it.groupValues[1]
-            }
+            """_sysconfigdata_[a-z]*_android_(.+).py""".toRegex()
+                .matchEntire(filename)?.let {
+                    return@run it.groupValues[1]
+                }
         }
         throw GradleException("Failed to find Python triplet in $libPythonDir")
     }