gh-137583: Only lock the SSL context, not the SSL socket (GH-137588)

Fixes a deadlock in 3.13.6.

Lib/test/test_ssl.py

@@ -4627,6 +4627,42 @@ class ThreadedTests(unittest.TestCase):
             with client_context.wrap_socket(socket.socket()) as s:
                 s.connect((HOST, server.port))
 
+    def test_thread_recv_while_main_thread_sends(self):
+        # GH-137583: Locking was added to calls to send() and recv() on SSL
+        # socket objects. This seemed fine at the surface level because those
+        # calls weren't re-entrant, but recv() calls would implicitly mimick
+        # holding a lock by blocking until it received data. This means that
+        # if a thread started to infinitely block until data was received, calls
+        # to send() would deadlock, because it would wait forever on the lock
+        # that the recv() call held.
+        data = b"1" * 1024
+        event = threading.Event()
+        def background(sock):
+            event.set()
+            received = sock.recv(len(data))
+            self.assertEqual(received, data)
+
+        client_context, server_context, hostname = testing_context()
+        server = ThreadedEchoServer(context=server_context)
+        with server:
+            with client_context.wrap_socket(socket.socket(),
+                                            server_hostname=hostname) as sock:
+                sock.connect((HOST, server.port))
+                sock.settimeout(1)
+                sock.setblocking(1)
+                # Ensure that the server is ready to accept requests
+                sock.sendall(b"123")
+                self.assertEqual(sock.recv(3), b"123")
+                with threading_helper.catch_threading_exception() as cm:
+                    thread = threading.Thread(target=background,
+                                              args=(sock,), daemon=True)
+                    thread.start()
+                    event.wait()
+                    sock.sendall(data)
+                    thread.join()
+                    if cm.exc_value is not None:
+                        raise cm.exc_value
+
 
 @unittest.skipUnless(has_tls_version('TLSv1_3') and ssl.HAS_PHA,
                      "Test needs TLS 1.3 PHA")