bpo-45262, asyncio: Fix cache of the running loop holder (GH-28796)

Prevent use-after-free of running loop holder via cache.
(cherry picked from commit 392a898353)

Co-authored-by: Matthias Reichl <github@hias.horus.com>

Modules/_asynciomodule.c

@@ -3258,6 +3258,9 @@ new_running_loop_holder(PyObject *loop)
 static void
 PyRunningLoopHolder_tp_dealloc(PyRunningLoopHolder *rl)
 {
+    if (cached_running_holder == (PyObject *)rl) {
+        cached_running_holder = NULL;
+    }
     Py_CLEAR(rl->rl_loop);
     PyObject_Free(rl);
 }