gh-114940: Add _Py_FOR_EACH_TSTATE_UNLOCKED(), and Friends (gh-127077)

This is a precursor to the actual fix for gh-114940, where we will change these macros to use the new lock.  This change is almost entirely mechanical; the exceptions are the loops in codeobject.c and ceval.c, which now hold the "head" lock.  Note that almost all of the uses of _Py_FOR_EACH_TSTATE_UNLOCKED() here will change to _Py_FOR_EACH_TSTATE_BEGIN() once we add the new per-interpreter lock.

Objects/object.c

@@ -119,7 +119,7 @@ get_reftotal(PyInterpreterState *interp)
        since we can't determine which interpreter updated it. */
     Py_ssize_t total = REFTOTAL(interp);
 #ifdef Py_GIL_DISABLED
-    for (PyThreadState *p = interp->threads.head; p != NULL; p = p->next) {
+    _Py_FOR_EACH_TSTATE_UNLOCKED(interp, p) {
         /* This may race with other threads modifications to their reftotal */
         _PyThreadStateImpl *tstate_impl = (_PyThreadStateImpl *)p;
         total += _Py_atomic_load_ssize_relaxed(&tstate_impl->reftotal);