gh-131423: Update to OpenSSL 3.0.16. (GH-131839)

The bin tag is 3.0.16.1 because we rebuilt without uplink support to fix gh-131804.
This PR also prevents making calls that are now unsafe without uplink, and updates
the tests to property interpret these failures as unsupported.

Lib/test/test_audit.py

@@ -23,6 +23,7 @@ class AuditTest(unittest.TestCase):
         with subprocess.Popen(
             [sys.executable, "-X utf8", AUDIT_TESTS_PY, *args],
             encoding="utf-8",
+            errors="backslashreplace",
             stdout=subprocess.PIPE,
             stderr=subprocess.PIPE,
         ) as p: