## Summary
fixes: #16041
## Test Plan
Using the [project](https://github.com/bwcc-clan/polebot) in the linked
issue:
Notice how the project "polebot" is in the "play" directory which is
included in the `exclude` setting as:
```toml
exclude = ["play"]
```
**Before this fix**
```
DEBUG ruff:worker:0 ruff_server::resolve: Ignored path via `exclude`: /private/tmp/ruff-test/play/polebot/src/utils/log_tools.py
```
**After this fix**
```
DEBUG ruff:worker:2 ruff_server::resolve: Included path via `include`: /private/tmp/ruff-test/play/polebot/src/utils/log_tools.py
```
I also updated the same project to remove the "play" directory from the
`exclude` setting and made sure that anything under the `polebot/play`
directory is included:
```
DEBUG ruff:worker:4 ruff_server::resolve: Included path via `include`: /private/tmp/ruff-test/play/polebot/play/test.py
```
And, excluded when I add the directory back:
```
DEBUG ruff:worker:2 ruff_server::resolve: Ignored path via `exclude`: /private/tmp/ruff-test/play/polebot/play/test.py
```
## Summary
This PR creates separate functions to check whether the document path is
excluded for linting or formatting. The main motivation is to avoid the
double `Option` for the call sites and makes passing the correct
settings simpler.
## Summary
This PR updates the native server to consider the `include` and
`extend-include` file resolver settings.
fixes: #12242
## Test Plan
Note: Settings reloading doesn't work for nested configs which is fixed
in #12253 so the preview here only showcases root level config.
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